MEN CAN LEARN FROM WOMEN

WHAT MEN CAN LEARN FROM WOMEN: As modern women enter more and more male-dominated arenas, women are often told to be more like men. But when it comes to having happy, healthy relationships, men can learn a lot from the fairer sex. Here are our top three things men can learn from women. Pay attentionWomen are looked at as the more sensitive, thoughtful gender. "Women's intuition" is considered an almost paranormal ability to see things men don't. Yet without even tapping into their psychic gifts, women have an edge on men when it comes to insight: because they pay attention. Men need to learn from women that paying attention isn't a passive process. It's about being engaged enough to understand what's being said, remember it and act on it in the future. If you're confused or disinterested in what your partner is saying, don't tune out. Make a conscious effort to engage yourself in what she's saying by asking questions or contributing to the conversation. Slow downBecause women are so interested in the details of interpersonal relationships, they often recognize that the complexities of life require a great deal of patience. Men are notorious for trying to "fix" problems. Women, on the other hand, often deliberately take time to vent about a problem and analyze it from many angles before taking action. Men are often applauded for their ambition and drive to get things done. But they can learn a lesson from women about how to balance the need for speed with the desire to do things right. Women tend to show more patience with people and situations, and in the end, that can mean they find better, more long-lasting solutions. By becoming more aware of how you react to problems, you will allow yourself more opportunities for thoughtful analysis and planning. Cry! Laugh! Pout! Smile!Men are often teased for not being in touch with their "softer side." The truth is, even men who are very connected with their emotions are often uncomfortable expressing them outwardly. Unfortunately, men know that society frowns upon them showing the same emotions as women -- men who are "too" sad, happy or angry are often considered effeminate. But by not allowing themselves to express emotion, men are just missing out! If men can learn to express their feelings like women, they will be freer to enjoy the rich emotional texture of life.:}