Tuesday, November 18, 2008

SEE YOUR AUTHENTIC BEAUTY!!

Attractiveness isn't always about being the most physically beautiful person in the room. The way you feel and how comfortable others feel in your presence has more impact on your attractiveness level than the size of your nose or shape of your body. We're all different, and diversity is what keeps us interesting. Live authentically and put your best foot forward to show others what makes you unique. Focusing on your attributes will help you and others put your looks in perspective. Engaging in negative self-talk is the number one enemy of high self-esteem and a culprit we all battle. Try giving your inner critic a break. The next time you catch yourself spinning the same old record of negativity, stop and compliment yourself instead. Focusing on the positive aspects of your body and personality will create more of that in your life and up your attractiveness factor instantly. Relationships can have a great impact on how attractive you feel, as well. How we look through our partner's eyes can alter our view of our self dramatically. So it's important to surround yourself with people who find you attractive. It's not necessarily a case of how classically beautiful you are - it's more about how approachable you are. A solid sense of self, a warm sense of humor, or an interest in someone else is all it takes to engage others and give them an opportunity to see your inner beauty shine. Being attractive isn't necessarily about looks. It's about how you use what you've got. Create a personal style that is authentically you. Play up the features that will minimize flaws that you'd like to hide. Being well put together shows others that you think highly enough of yourself to do the required maintenance. Take comfort in the things you find attractive about yourself and let your imperfections fall by the wayside. Focusing on the positive will help you put your looks in the proper perspective and allow you to celebrate yourself as a whole with all the quirks and charisma that make you unique - and truly attractive!!!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I wish the stars would tell us what is going to be Zimbabwe's fate! So much uncertainty out here that the only hope people have left is in God and the Heavens. Speak, Zodiac!