POST BREAKUP INDEPENDENCE

Most people will have more than one romantic relationship, go through multiple breakups, endure countless disappointments and suffer numerous heartbreaks before finding their one and only. The consensus is that the suffering is worth it for a shot at ever-lasting happiness. This is all well and good, but when the blows of love befall you, when your heart is broken into bits, the temptation is to give up on love. "Why did I put myself through this?" (you may ask). "Never again!" (you may vow). But there is a way to start picking up the pieces, and it begins with that old cliché - the thing that got you into this situation in the first place - you believe in love. More than ever, now is the time to begin loving yourself into wholeness again! Instead of putting time into loving another, put more time into loving you. The first step is psychologically preparing yourself to healthrough love.:)